Tunde Ajaja The shame that confronted both of them as they were ushered out of the office premises that morning could make anyone in their shoes want to attempt the unthinkable – like entering the ground, if possible – at that moment. It all happened in the full glare of their colleagues. The incident happened […] …
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School resumption: Eight ways to help your child to do better
Eight reasons you should still change your child’s school
Tunde Ajaja The decision to change a child’s school is sometimes a hard one to make, and that could be due to many reasons. Sometimes, it could be that the child has been used to the school or whether there are no suitable alternatives, among many other reasons. So it was for Mrs. Ayomide Jegede, […] …
Four things to do if your partner is addicted to sex
Tunde Ajaja My lord, please dissolve this marriage; my husband wants to kill me with sex,” said the mother of one, Baliki Oke, at the Iseyin Customary Court in Oyo State few weeks ago. At that point, as can be imagined, almost everyone in the court turned their attention to the case, as the woman […] …
Eleven ways to know your partner is having an affair
Tunde Ajaja No doubt, being in love, especially when it is reciprocal, comes with some good feeling. But one of the many things that truncate such pleasure or harmonious relationships is cheating, and both men and women have been found to be guilty of it. Largely, cheating is regarded as a betrayal of trust and […] …
13 things you shouldn’t do during sex
Tunde Ajaja Usually, sexual intercourse is one activity that thrives on concentration, and that attention it needs often remains pertinent until the two persons involved in it are okay at the end of the exercise. But, in spite of the excitement and enjoyment that often come with sex, the act may suddenly become nauseating and […] …
Seven ways to cope with in-laws
Tunde Ajaja The place of in-laws in a marriage, especially in the African setting, cannot be underplayed or overemphasised. In-laws are deemed as being an integral part of every new family formed. In-laws are the persons someone becomes related to because of marriage; especially the father, mother or siblings of the husband or wife one […] …
Things to note before you hire that home help
Tunde Ajaja Increasingly and for the obvious reasons, there are concerns about the risks inherent in hiring domestic staff. From the shocking to the downright frightening, there are several examples of how some people, especially parents, who hired home helps end up in deep regrets, due to the actions and inactions of the person(s) they […] …
How to deal with bad breath
Tunde Ajaja It’s one subject of discourse many people shy away from, for reasons that seem somewhat understandable. And the way some people cover their mouths or squeeze their faces when the phrase ‘mouth odour’ is mentioned would almost make it look like it could be contagious. Perhaps, it’s that disgusting and some people seem […] …
Top 12 things that crash marriages
Tunde Ajaja There are few things that can compare with the ecstatic feeling of being in love. In fact, that feeling gets to the peak when it snowballs into an affair. And of course, marriage seems like the icing on the cake for such persons. But sometimes, beyond the initial excitement, happy marriages soon run […] …